Picking the Best Babysitter for the Job

There’s more to babysitting than showing up on time and hanging out with your kids. Your babysitter is being asked to assume responsibility for your child’s life when you’re away. There’s no bigger job than that! Think about what type of job you’re asking your sitter to do, and pick one that’s the right fit.

Here are some guidelines:
  • Consider the number of children the sitter will be caring for and for how many hours. (Tip: Extra money is usually paid for watching more than two children or sitting after midnight.)
  • Short babysitting jobs are best for new sitters. (Tip: The job is too long if it’s more than three hours when the children are awake and more than five hours when the children are sleeping.)
  • More than two children, especially with the hazards in and around the home, are too hard to guard. (Tip: If your sitter is just starting out, they should ideally only babysit for one child at a time.)
  • Preschoolers (3- 5) are the best age group for young babysitters to begin babysitting for.
  • You shouldn’t have a new, young teen sitter babysit for infants or toddlers. Even with experience, a newborn (less than one month old) is not an appropriate babysitting job for a teenager. (Tip: Sitters shouldn’t care for infants less than six months of age until they’ve had at least two years of experience babysitting. Infants that age involve too many risks and may lead to frustration.)
  • Hire a sitter that’s taken a babysitting preparation course. It’s great for the safety of your children as well as your sitter. (Tip: Teens who’ve taken a course usually charge more for their life and safety skills. They deserve greater compensation!)

If your sitter hasn’t taken a babysitting preparation course, consider chatting with their parents about enrolling them in a local Safe Sitter® class. As a gift to your sitter (and their parents), you may even want to offer to pay the fee for them to get training. That’s truly a gift that will keep on giving. And you’ll never have to wonder if they are the right fit for any job!

Summary

  • Your babysitter is assuming responsibility for your child's life when you're away — think carefully about the job you're asking them to do and whether it's the right fit for their experience level.
  • Short jobs (under three hours while children are awake, under five hours while sleeping) are best for newer sitters — and extra pay is customary for more than two children or jobs running past midnight.
  • Preschoolers (ages 3–5) are the best starting age group for young babysitters — new sitters should ideally begin with just one child at a time.
  • New or young teen sitters should not babysit infants or toddlers. Sitters shouldn't care for infants under six months of age until they have at least two years of babysitting experience.
  • Hire a sitter who has completed a babysitting preparation course — teens with training typically charge more, and they're worth it. Offering to pay for a Safe Sitter® class is a gift that keeps on giving.

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