Babysitter's Guide to Survival: Tips for New Babysitters

Starting your first babysitting job can feel overwhelming — but a little preparation goes a long way. This Babysitter Boss episode covers the essential survival tips every new babysitter needs, from what to wear and what to bring, to how to prep before the job and connect with kids who are shy or nervous about a new sitter.

Summary

  • Before the job, talk with the parents about bedtime routines, meals and snacks, what the kids like to play, which electronics they are allowed to use, and whether any children are still in diapers or potty training.
  • Dress comfortably and avoid wearing anything you don't want to get stained — you will spend time on the floor, outside, and in close contact with young children.
  • Do not carry anything in your bag that could be harmful to young children, including lip gloss, lotion, medications, or small batteries.
  • Bring a water bottle and a snack in case the family's kitchen is not well-stocked.
  • If it is your first time babysitting for a family, arrive early so the children can get comfortable with you while the parents are still home.
  • If kids seem shy, ask them to show you their favorite toy or game — it almost always breaks the ice.

Video Transcript

Welcome new babysitters! If you’re just starting out babysitting, then this episode is for you. I’m here to share some secrets for survival.

I thought you said they were secrets for success.

Same thing!

Do Your Prep Work Before the Babysitting Job

First, do your prep work. Talk with the employer before the job about what the kid’s bedtime routines are, what to feed them for meals or snacks, or what the kids like to play, including the electronics they’re allowed to play with. And finally, the all-important info about toileting.

Toileting? What do you mean toileting?

For example, are they still in diapers? Are they potty training or will they need help using the bathroom? (And watch my video on diaper changing if you need some practice with diapering before the job.)

What to Wear (and What Not to Wear) When Babysitting

Second, dress for the part. And by that, I mean wear something comfortable. You’re probably going to spend a lot of time playing with kids on the floor and maybe even outside in the yard. Also, don’t wear anything really nice that you don’t want to get stained, because it will get stained.

You mean from spit up?

Oh yeah, spit up. That’s what I was thinking of, and other bodily fluids.

What to Bring to a Babysitting Job

Also, don’t carry anything with you in your purse or backpack that would be dangerous for kids. That lip gloss that smells like strawberries to you also smells like strawberries to two-year-old’s and at my last job, he ate mine.

However, you do want to bring a water bottle and a healthy snack in case your employer hasn’t gone to the store in a while. Otherwise, you might get stuck eating whatever the kids are eating.

How to Connect with Kids on a First-Time Job

If it’s your first time babysitting for a family, show up early so that the kids can get used to you while the parents get ready to leave. Get down on their level and introduce yourself.

What if the kids don’t like me?

Well, if the kids seem awkward or shy, it’s probably because they just don’t know you. Try asking them to show you their favorite toy or game, that usually breaks the ice.

This is sounding pretty easy! I think I’ve got it.

What to Do When Things Go Wrong

Great! Now sometimes things will go wrong on the job like tantrums, bloody noses, diaper explosions.

You’re scaring me!

Not to worry. The best thing to do is be prepared. Take a babysitting class like Safe Sitter®. Go to safesitter.org to find a class in your area. Also, check out my videos on when things go wrong. We cover a lot of common babysitting situations.

Got it. Anything else?

Have fun! What other job can you get paid to play games and watch movies with kids? Relax and enjoy it. Because if you’re having fun, the kids will too!

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