5 Things Your Babysitter Wants You to Know (Parents, Listen Up)

Parents, your babysitter has a few things they wish they could tell you — but won’t. From getting paid on time to being home when you said you would, this Babysitter Boss episode covers the five things every parent should know to be a family that babysitters actually want to work for.

Summary

  • Always pay your babysitter at the end of the night — cash, check, or a mobile transfer like Venmo all work, but telling them you'll pay later is not okay.
  • Before you leave, tell your children that the babysitter is in charge — this makes it much easier for your babysitter to maintain authority while you're gone.
  • Make sure there is food in the house for both the children and the babysitter, especially if you will be gone over a mealtime.
  • Come home on time — your babysitter has a life outside of your house, and being consistently late is disrespectful of their time.
  • Do not expect your babysitter to clean your house — their job is to care for your children and clean up after themselves, not do your dishes or housework.

Video Transcript

Parents, on behalf of babysitters everywhere, I’m gonna let you in on a little secret. We babysitters … we talk. And we’ve been known to say, Oh, you don’t want to babysit for the Nelsons. That’s a nightmare of a job!

Now, if you don’t want to end up like the Nelsons, then listen carefully because I’m going to tell you the five things your babysitter really wants you to know.

Pay Your Babysitter on Time

Number one. Pay me. Like with real money. Babysitting is a lot of work, and we have an agreement. I take care of your children for a specified period of time, and you pay me. Cash works. Or even a bank transfer, like Chase Pay. Hey! I’ll even take a check! Do people really still use those?

But if you come home and tell me I’m sorry that you don’t have any money, you’ll have to pay me later. That sounds a lot like fraud. Pay your babysitter.

Tell Your Kids the Babysitter Is in Charge

Number two. Tell your kids that I’m in charge when I’m babysitting. When you’re gone, I’m the substitute parent and I take that responsibility seriously. But it’s a lot harder to maintain control when you’ve got little kids screaming, You’re not my mom!

Make Sure There Is Food in the House

Number three. Make sure there’s food in the house. If I’m babysitting over a mealtime, I’m responsible for feeding your children. So please, have food for me to feed them.

Um … your mom left some pickles for lunch.

And while you’re at it, it would be really nice if you had something grown-up for me to eat as well. I mean, I’m a big fan of GoGo Applesauce and Goldfish, but they don’t quite fill me up.

Be Home on Time

Number four. Be home. On time. Believe me, I have things to do. Even if I’m going to go home and sleep.

Don’t Expect Your Babysitter to Clean Your House

Number five. Don’t expect me to clean your house. Do I look like a maid? Seriously, a good babysitter picks up after herself and make sure that messes made by the kids get cleaned up as well. But a babysitter’s job is to take care of your kids, not do your dirty dishes.

There you have it. The five things your babysitter wants you to know. It’s not hard, so don’t be that family.

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